Asst. Editor's Two Cents
Nice Guys vs. Bad Guys
Is it true what they say about nice guys finishing last? Do girls really go for the bad guys? A lot of people do not know exactly what they want. Some people rather have their cake and eat it to, while others can't see the "one" for them right before their eyes. Both genders play games throughout their relationship no matter what it is. For instance, guys and girls cheat for numerous reasons. Some cheat for a purpose/reason and others cheat just because. It is still wrong but they "supposedly" have their reasons. A souse would cheat on their significant other because they don't make them happy/please them. For any reason if you're going to cheat just get rid of the person you are cheating on because it will make their life easier and it is unfair.
A lot of people don't really know what they want because of how many times they change their mind, especially females. That person who you want to be with but not know it could be your best friend or someone who you know but they are afraid of telling you because they are afraid of getting rejected. Since that person (guy/girl) does not tell you how they really feel. You go searching for this and that hoping that this relationship would be better than the last. But it never works out. People need to stop searching and just chill and relax and it will happen. It is no rush because we are still young and some are not thinking about getting married and just want to have fun. It all depends on you.
Guys, not all females want bad guys, just guys who are not boring, who is entertaining, a bit dangerous and has that edge. "Uppity" guys are not going to cut it and neither does over cocky not confidents but too cocky gentlemen.
Ladies, need to watch out for some guys and know that you can't trust everyone. You don't want to end up in jail or somewhere you don't want to be for messing with a real bad guy. Both genders need to stop searching for the one and just let them find you because only time will tell.
Nice guys necessarily finish last but if you think about it. You (nice guy) do everything you can to please her and make her happy but yet she still doesn't want to be with you the bad guy might not do much or anything for her but yet she wants to be with him. Eventually she will realize what you have done and appreciate it more once it is gone and she no longer has it. But with the bad guy he has that edge, attitude, and there is never a dull moment with him. It's been said that girls want guys who treat them like crap, but that not entirely true but it has been done numerous of times. Whether the females knows it or not, you don't have to settle for less when you can have the best. A lot of females see nice guys as punks but if you things about it they are not one in the same. They see the wrong perception of them. A lot of nice guys do defend their honor and step up to the plate when they need to especially if someone is messing with their girl. Some nice guys have a bad side but if there is no reason to bring it out then they won't. There is a time and place for that. Various nice guys do have a bad side but it is their mannerism to be nice and treat their women with respect until something goes down. But usually nice guys finish last for specific reasons....